
At Surbiton Hill Nursery School we have completed a whole school bronze and Silver Attachment Aware Award in 2020/2021 & 2023/24
In 2024/25 we are completed the GOLD award
We are now part of the Platinum Board with AFC
We are now 2025 Winners of the National ARC award for our work on Attachment
Watch this video to learn more about why we signed up to be an Attachment Aware School
Here is our Big Feelings workshop for any parents who wish to learn more
The training and advice we have completed this year is part of our partnership with the Virtual School in Kingston and Richmond. we have also had additional guidance and support form our Educational Psychologist
For more information about the work of the Virtual school click here
We are constantly looking at ways in which we can improve our provision for pupils who experience emotional challenges, in particular children with anxiety, attachment and trauma difficulties.
We have been working with the Local Authority and Educational Psychologists to improve and embed our practices, this has included increased training and support for our Staff, parents, students and our Governors.
We are signposting webinar and reading materials regularly, examples of which you will see below.

We have learnt about the brain and its development in young children from birth to five. We have learnt about how trauma can affect the brain and influence our behaviour responses, and all staff have trained in emotion coaching as a way to support behavior and help children when they feel dysregulated. We are in the process of updating our behaviour policy to reflect this nurturing approach. We were able to complete this through the Virtual School in Kingston and Richmond and would like to share our experiences with the wider community and parents.

All behaviour is communication and is often signaling an unmet need. Children under the age of 5 are learning how to manage different emotions and need our help as calm adults to co regulate
What is emotion coaching?
This video can help explain it
We run parenting sessions help parents with top tips for a CALM home.
Connect
Acknowledge
Limits
Make a plan
Watch this short film to understand how an emotionally regulated adult can help soothe the anxiety within a child Window of Tolerance
We know that Relationships are key to helping support families and children and so here at SHN we ensure that we focus on the unique child and create an environment where children can feel safe and happy.
We link tohis to our transition for children starting Nursery and have used our research on attachment to ensure children settle well.
How we help children settle in to Nursery – Settling in
Here is further reading about why this matters https://early-education.org.uk/settling-children/
If you would like any help of further information about how to support your child’s “BIG” feelings please speak to a member of staff.

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